This is an important and touchy topic. I hope you'll take a listen to the longer answer here - https://youtu.be/aTw1JHcE1iE?t=1576
In that link I cover the difference between offering this phrase as an explanation (not good) and offering it freely as a statement of faith. I also cover in more detail how beautiful it is for a hurting person to say it yet how potentially unwise it is for someone to say it to them as a sort of command.
My website https://BibleThinker.org