It seems to me that a balanced, biblical view will affirm both the role of the husband as having higher authority in the household and his responsibility to utilize that authority for self-sacrificial service. Any teaching that doesn't emphasize both of these aspects seems to be unbiblical.
My video on "How to Be a Husband" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65eMggo_xKQ
My website https://BibleThinker.org