One additional piece of advice I would add to this is that we should become very aware when we are basing our beliefs about our relationship with God on our feelings about our own performance verses the clear promises of God in Scripture. If you depend on how you feel about your own performance you will create anxiety or pride but if you depend on the grace of Christ promised in Scripture you will create gratitude and security in your heart.
Full answer in the original context here https://youtu.be/HotTxSroljA?t=5312
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