It's easy to see when this is happening to someone else. The hard thing, and the more important thing, is to see when it's happening to yourself. When I am the one full of temptation to justify my own compromise, it's amazing how good I am at twisting Scripture and how receptive I am to the lies of Satan about it. When you want God to be OK with something it's just too easy to find a way, no matter how twisted, to say that He is.
Be brutally honest with yourself about your own motives when looking at these things.
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